What’s Your Wedding Planning Personality? Find Your Planning Partner Style
Photography by Megan Moura
Planning a wedding can feel like a full-time job, or a beautiful, creative adventure. Or both.
(Anyone else Googling “wedding planning spreadsheet” at midnight and dreaming in floral color palettes?)
Whether you’re two steps ahead with a shared Dropbox folder or just getting started with a Pinterest board and a prayer, one thing’s for sure: knowing how you like to plan makes everything smoother. Especially when you’re planning a destination wedding in Hawaii.
This lighthearted wedding planning personality quiz is here to help you find your wedding planning style and figure out what kind of support will help you feel confident, calm, and maybe even excited about planning.
You don’t have to do it all. Let’s find your style and your planning partner.
Let’s Find Your Wedding Planning Style
Grab a pen or keep track of your answers. Mostly A’s, B’s, C’s or D’s?
Photography by Megan Moura
1. When it comes to big life decisions, you...
A. Research, list pros and cons, and create a plan.
B. Trust your gut and go with what feels right.
C. Talk it out together, dream it up, and get creative.
D. Put it off until the deadline is staring you in the face.
2. Your ideal Saturday morning looks like...
A. Checking off a few errands before brunch.
B. Sleeping in and relaxing with zero obligations.
C. Browsing local shops or getting hands-on with a DIY project.
D. Catching up on sleep and avoiding anything that feels like a to-do list.
3. When you're feeling stressed, you...
A. Organize and take control.
B. Step back and let someone else handle it.
C. Channel your energy into something creative.
D. Freeze, or distract yourself with something easier.
4. Your wedding vision is mostly about...
A. Keeping things running smoothly and on budget.
B. Enjoying the experience with your people.
C. Personal touches and making it feel like you.
D. Honestly? I haven’t thought that far ahead yet.
5. How involved do you want to be in the planning?
A. Pretty involved. I just want some expert structure.
B. Honestly? I want to hand over the reins and enjoy the ride.
C. Deeply involved in design and meaning, but logistics? Help.
D. Not much at all. I’m overwhelmed and don’t know where to begin.
6. Which best describes how you feel about your wedding budget?
A. We have a firm number and want to stay within it as closely as possible.
B. We’re willing to invest for peace of mind and a smooth experience.
C. We’re flexible. As long as it feels meaningful and visually stunning, we’re open to allocating more where it counts.
D. TBD. I haven't had the brain space to think about it yet.
So... What’s Your Wedding Planning Personality?
This wedding planner quiz is more than fun. It’s designed to help you answer the real question behind all those Pinterest boards and venue spreadsheets. What kind of wedding planner do I need?
Mostly A’s: The Organized Strategist
You’re thoughtful, thorough, and a total spreadsheet queen. You like knowing what’s coming, having a plan, and checking things off one by one. You’re not afraid of research, but you’d rather not waste time falling into vendor rabbit holes when someone else could help you shortcut the process.
Your perfect planning partner: Maid of Honor for Hire
You’ll love having a planning pro in your corner from the start. We’ll help you build your timeline, budget, vendor team, and design strategy so you can plan with confidence and efficiency. Then you can hand it all off for seamless coordination when the day comes.
If you're searching for the best wedding planner for destination weddings who can offer structure and flexibility, this is your match.
Photography by Emily Turner
Mostly B’s: The Laid-Back Duo
You’re juggling work, life, travel, and everything in between. You know what you like, but the thought of managing timelines, emails, and contracts makes your eye twitch. You’d rather enjoy your engagement and leave the logistics to someone who lives for this stuff.
Your perfect planning partner: The Full Shebang
With full-service planning and design, we’ll handle everything from venue scouting and creative direction to managing your vendor team and executing every detail. You get to stay in the loop without being overwhelmed by it.
If you’ve ever asked, "Should I hire a full-service wedding planner?" this is probably your answer.
Mostly C’s: The Creative Craftspeople
You’ve got big ideas, strong opinions, and a soft spot for meaningful details. You want your wedding to feel deeply you, from the color palette to the ceremony vibe to how your guests experience the day. But when it comes to logistics and translating ideas into actual vendor orders or setup diagrams, things start to feel murky.
Your perfect planning partner: Maid of Honor for Hire
You’ll stay creatively involved while we help you build the structure that holds it all together. Think: personalized vendor recommendations, monthly check-ins, and a clear roadmap for planning. All of this while keeping your vision front and center.
Want even more support with design?
Add our Event Design Upgrade and we’ll create a custom design presentation just for you. We’ll help source rentals, collaborate with your floral designer, and make sure every visual element works in harmony. Your wedding won’t just look beautiful. It will feel cohesive and intentional.
This is an ideal option for couples looking for Hawaii destination wedding help but still wanting a hand in shaping the creative direction.
Mostly D’s: The Wedding Avoider (No Shame)
You’re the kind of person who thrives in your career, shows up for your people, and handles a million things beautifully. But wedding planning? It feels... heavy. Like one more mental tab open. You’re not lazy. You’re just already doing so much. And the pressure to “get it right” is real.
You’re not alone. A lot of couples who are planning a destination wedding in Hawaii feel this way. It’s common to delay starting because it all feels like too much. And when you do try to jump in, it’s easy to get lost in decisions and doubt.
Your perfect planning partner: The Full Shebang
This is where we step in, take the lead, and bring your vision to life with clarity, creativity, and zero judgment. We’ll guide you through big decisions, anticipate needs before they become stress points, and handle every detail from vendors to design to guest experience so you can breathe again.
Even if you’re behind where you think you should be, you’re right on time. And we know how to plan a wedding in Hawaii from start to finish with calm and care.
What If You’re a Mix?
Honestly? Most couples are.
We’ve worked with planners-at-heart and spreadsheet-haters alike. And the truth is, your planning personality isn’t rigid. It shifts depending on your season of life, your workload, and your priorities. That’s why we design our services to flex with you.
No matter where you land, we believe your wedding should feel like you. Authentic, joyful, and thoughtfully planned from start to finish.
Not Sure Where to Start?
Let’s chat about your dream wedding. Whether you’re hands-on, hands-off, or somewhere in between, this wedding planner quiz can help clarify where to begin.
We’ll help you figure out which planning style suits you best and how we can make the process feel more like a collaboration than a chore.
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